Experiencing Female Ejaculation

Is squirting myth or magic? French scientists say myth, squirting girls say magic. And I say: those who can, do, and they do so because squirting is fun!

Chloe Thurlow, Girl Trade

Two parter this week, more to follow in the next instalment!

There are a variety of “Sex Toys” in Second Life designed to enhance intimacy and the whole sexual experience in general, they go from the sublime to the ridiculous dependent upon what particular kink floats your boat! One such “toy” allows the woman to produce the mythical…… well, squirt or ejaculation during sex. I say mythical because, whilst I know it’s not dinner party conversation, we’ve all been in that situation where you’re with your besties, the wine’s flowing and conversations become very *coughs* open! On such an occasion some time ago, one of my friends confided that, completely out of the blue, about ten minutes into a rather passionate encounter with her lover, she was suddenly conscious that she was squirting watery liquid all over her partner, not only over her partner, there was so much of this liquid gushing out of her, that it spilled over onto the bed, soaking the sheets and mattress! The fact is, it’s so rare it’s almost as I suggested a myth and the conversation had us on the edge of our seats eking out the details!

I came away from the conversation… intrigued and wanting to know more about this myth that had suddenly become a reality, how common was it, is it a spontaneous thing or are there ways to bring on the phenomenon? Here’s what I’ve gleaned;

How do women squirt or ejaculate?

A lot of women associate the accumulation of ejaculate fluid with the sensations of needing to urinate because of the pressure that builds up near the bladder. The scientific community has long debated the origins of this liquid ejaculate, or the amrita orgasm as it’s called amongst tantric practitioners, while those who study spiritual sexual traditions have known for some time that this liquid is a lot more than just urine (it’s really not urine at all). In some cultures, it is considered the mythical Fountain of Youth.

The origin of this liquid is indeed not the bladder and it isn’t urine. Amrita, or female ejaculate, is a mostly clear substance that is produced by the urethral sponge when it’s stimulated. The urethral sponge lives very near to the back of the clitoris and wraps around the urethra, hence why it feels to so many women like the urge to urinate when stimulated and engorged.

“The orgasm itself is accompanied with feelings of expansiveness, euphoria and emotional freedom. It occurs when a woman feels most comfortable to express her sexual desire and pleasure with complete abandon, or what tantric practitioners consider the state of surrender and unlike clitoral orgasms, experiencing an Amrita orgasm feels less like hitting a peak and more like a luscious energetic waterfall of love is pouring from the heart, through your g-spot and all over your thighs (and probably your partners, too)”, report Ashley Encantada, holistic relationship & intimacy coach.

Located near the g-spot, the urethral sponge, which is more commonly referred to as female prostate, (who knew!!) is made of erectile tissue which fills with water from our blood plasma which is then funnelled and retained by the capillaries when stimulated and aroused. The female prostate swells as it captures this liquid and the capillaries work with the Skene’s Glands to create the fountain which releases this nectar! It flows out through the urethra because the Skene’s Glands themselves end through openings in the urethra, (again, who knew!!).

The question is, can the myth be a reality for you? Truth is “Squirting isn’t easy, it has to be said. Then, neither is riding a unicycle. Just as some people sweat more than others, or eat more than others, some girls erupt in surging geysers of vaginal fluids with greater facility and in more generous quantities than others.” Chloe Thurlow, erotic novelist and essayist.

However, you may or may not be pleased to know that there are certain tips on how exactly to bring this about this very pleasurable and unique event! Want to know more, well there’s too much for a single, over a coffee blog read so, tune back in next week for the road to orgasmic Nirvana!

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