Heterosexual women have fewer orgasms during sex than anyone else…… Wow!!
“At the moment of orgasm you grow wings, defy gravity and your soul slips quietly across the universe like a shooting star.” ― Chloe Thurlow
I read an old but really interesting article in the week. It came from a study published earlier this year from a couple of universities and the Kinsey (Luuuurv!) institute in Indiana. The study found that heterosexual women have fewer orgasms during sex than any other demographic, and it’s notably fewer than heterosexual men.
The researchers studied over 52,000 Americans of different genders and sexual orientations to look into how orgasm frequency varies.
The study has drawn some really interesting conclusions – perhaps unsurprisingly, heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually or always orgasm when they’re sexually intimate, with 95 per cent agreeing. No surprise there, good job it wasn’t a selfishness study – just saying.
The next group most likely to orgasm were gay men (89 per cent) followed by bisexual men (88 per cent). Disappointingly for women of all sexual orientations, all three male demographics came above the female groups. Amongst women, lesbians orgasm most when sexually intimate, with 86 per cent reporting that they usually or always do.
This is followed by bisexual women - a huge drop down at 66 per cent - and finally straight women at 65 per cent. It seems when a man is added into the mix, the likelihood of orgasm significantly decreases for women, we need a study to tell us this??
But they also found out what women who orgasm more frequently than others tend to do to get there, so if you want to increase your likelihood of having that “When Harry Met Sally” moment, this is what they recommend:
More oral sex
Longer lasting sex
Higher relationship satisfaction
Asking for what you want in bed
Praising your partner for what they do in bed
Calling or emailing “to tease about doing something sexual” - presumably a text or Snapchat works too
Wearing sexy lingerie
Trying new sexual positions
Anal stimulation
Acting out fantasies
Incorporating “sexy talk”
Expressing love during sex
According to the study authors: “Women were more likely to orgasm if their sexual encounter included deep kissing, manual genital stimulation, and/or oral sex in addition to vaginal intercourse.” No shit Sherlock!
The researchers also looked into why there was such a large difference between the frequency of orgasms for lesbian and straight women, concluding that lesbian women likely have a better understanding both of female anatomy and clitoral stimulation. They also pointed out that lesbian women are better at taking turns in the bedroom than straight men. Again, with the shit Sherlock!
But the high rate of orgasms of lesbian women should be encouraging for straight women. “The fact that lesbian women orgasmed more often than heterosexual women indicates that many heterosexual women could experience higher rates of orgasms,” the researchers suggest.
So, it could be worth trying some of the above if you want to have more pleasure in the bedroom. I’ll report back in a few weeks 😉
Time for something sexy then;
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